Hi, today i read
a good book, it is one of the motivational book. I would like to rewrite the
contents of this book which i think is good, n i really want to write it in
english although the book is written in indonesian language, because practice
makes perfect J
When i read this
book, i just realized (again) that there is something in ourselves where we
thought that our life is fine and we through it fine also, until i read this
book n made me thought “wht the f*ck i am! Let’s get out from this f*cking
small pond.”
We used to get stuck to move on in this life
n lived in our “comfort zone” n never thought that the “zone” where we lived in
is actually our obstacle to get more success in this life.
According to the
book which i read, it told us that there is only two obstacles in our life
which come from the outside n the inside of ourselves.
People who like
to blame others, blame on circumstances, blame on his destiny, and so forth
just like people who like to said, “i don’t understand this lesson because my
teacher is never taught this one for me before” or “my business could not go
forward because i don’t have enough money to continue this business”, n “bla..bla...”.
That one is the example to the people who has the obstacle that come from the
outside.
And in my opinion, the worst is the obstacle
that come from in urself, inside. Such as anxiety or fear of failure, if u get failure then u embarrassed by the
words of others people, not confident, too much dependent with others, listen
to the words of others (not a word that his own), lazy and procrastinate the
works, and so forth.
Well, the last statement is really describe myself n wht
i did (˘ε˘ƪ)
The book told us
also “there is no competition in our life”, but in our truely heart said that we
worked all these years and have proven that competition does exist n our brain
captured it well also (˚☐˚!!) (!!˚☐˚) !!
And now we just
realized that is: It seems like have a competition with others, but the truth
is it just like a “single running race”, n the fact is: my best rival is my own
self! My enemy is my own fear, anxiety, doubt, fear of failure, laziness and
his other friends.. Ψ(▸_ ◂✗)
The real
competition is with our own self. Compete with others are impossible. How we
can do a running race if the finish line of each person is different from each
others? (in this case, the finish line means the purpose in life).
According to the
book, there is three ways to be successful, they are focus, focus, and focus.
Focus are:
1. Always think positive
2. Do not take care of other people's problems
3. Do not speak ill of others
4. Do not have too much attention of wht people said to us
5. Use the energy to deal with conditions
6. Open yourself to the possibilities
7. Arrange n set the priorities that would be done
8. Set the targets that would be achieved
9. Have principles
10. Just do something that has value and appropriate to the
purpose of ur life
11.
Always
introspection yourself
Okay, that's it
my post today, i hope we can learn from it and get ourselves more better than
yesterday, no one will say it's gonna be easy but i believe that it's gonna be
worth, because chance prefer to prepared mind (∩_∩)/
